Who Holds You While You Hold Everyone Else?

The quiet heartbreak of strong leaders and the sacred reset your Soul is asking for.

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If this conversation resonates, your Soul might be ready to uncover what’s quietly been running the show. Start with the Sabotage Quiz and see what’s been holding you back.

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The Whisper No One Talks About

You have the home.
The family.
The team.
The business.
The life everyone admires.

And yet… in the quiet of the night, a whisper comes:

“I can’t hold this forever.”
“I don’t know how long I can carry all of this.”
“Who would hold me if I finally let go?”

In this episode of Sacred Conversations, Jakko (my husband) and I talk about the quiet heartbreak of strong leaders, parents, and space holders: the people who carry the world… but feel like they’re disappearing inside their own success.

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The Invisible Weight of Responsibility

Everyone depends on you:

• Your kids

• Your partner

• Your business and team

• Your clients and finances

And you carry it with love.
It even defines who you are.

But here’s the hidden cost:

Without a space where you are held,
success starts to feel heavy, lonely, and fragile.

Many of my clients—leaders, doctors, CEOs, and deeply loving parents—spend decades building lives that look perfect.
They create financial security, beautiful homes, and entire systems meant to “hold them.”

And yet, deep down… they don’t feel safe.

Because no system can replace being truly held.

-> Ready to be held and exhale? Book your private Sacred Reset – a 4-hour sanctuary where you can finally be held.

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The Patterns Behind the Pressure

In this episode, we share intimate (anonymous) client stories:

• A leader responsible for 200,000 people who quietly carried 18 years of unprocessed grief for his lost child.

• A high-performing mother and CEO who used work to hold her world together while her family navigated illness and emotional chaos.

• A man who grew up in extreme wealth but felt invisible in his own family, forever chasing approval through success.

Each of them believed:
“If I just hold it all together, I’ll finally feel safe.”

But survival strategies can’t create inner safety.
True safety begins when you finally allow yourself to be held.

-> Ready to be held and exhale? Book your private Sacred Reset – a 4-hour sanctuary where you can finally be held.

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Leadership That Starts With Being Held

Carrying the weight of life doesn’t make you weak.
It makes you human.

And here’s the sacred shift:

Leadership isn’t about how much weight you can carry.
It’s about how deeply you are held while you carry it.

When you finally feel safe, seen, and connected to your true self:

• Life stops feeling like a fragile balancing act

• Relationships deepen, because you’re no longer performing strength

• Leadership flows from essence, not effort

This is the heart of our work—and the invitation of the Sacred Reset.

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Your Invitation to a Sacred Reset

If this conversation resonated, it’s likely because your Soul is whispering:
“I need this. I can’t do it alone anymore.”

The Sacred Reset is a private 4-hour retreat where you will:

• Lay down the invisible weight you’ve been carrying

• Feel deeply held, maybe for the first time in years

• Reset your nervous system and reconnect to the truth of who you are

• Leave anchored, clear, and safe in yourself again

Your life doesn’t need to break before you let yourself be held.
Private spots are limited.

Book Your Sacred Reset Here →

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Share This Episode

If you know someone silently carrying the world, share this conversation with them.
Your share might be the lifeline their Soul has been waiting for.

Listen to the full conversation here → the player link is right above this blogpost